new here, need advice!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2006
new here, need advice!
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Wed, 03-11-2009 - 11:37pm
i would be so appreciative of any advice! i have been married for almost 8 yrs, with my dh for 14. marriage has become passionless and my dh distant and withdrawn. I have started an affair with a man (14 yrs younger!) and am crazy about him. i feel awful, and am in therapy (my dh refuses to join me) i would love any input on the guilt....i have never ever cheated on anyone, and have quit the affair but we keep coming back to one another and i think i truly love him. its been going on about 3-4 mos. Thanks for any advice!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Thu, 03-12-2009 - 1:12am

Hi CD


I'd check out the thread on chemistry downstairs to put things into perspective.