New here with a question

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2008
New here with a question
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Sun, 09-28-2008 - 1:56pm

Hi all,
I've been lurking for a couple of months and I think I'm ready to join in.

My AP is a MM, I am M also. We've been having a PA for almost 2 years. We were friends before hand and one thing led to another.

My question is this: We've always had our A on the basis that it was purely a PA. I mean we care about each other as friends, but nothing more has been touched on or discussed from an emotional standpoint. I'm fine with this and all I can assume is that he is as well.

Is it possible for a PA to continue for a long period of time without any heavy duty emotional involvement? I'm not looking to end up with a happily ever after situation here. I think I'd be very scared with the prospect of an intense EA.

I know there are no hard and fast rules here so I'm looking for more personal anecdotes than anything.

Sorry for the randomness! I've never, ever discussed the A with anyone other than AP so my thoughts are probably scattered.

Thanks for letting me join you.

-Sim

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Registered: 09-29-2004
Tue, 09-30-2008 - 4:52pm
Wow 8 years? How often do you see each other?

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