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| Mon, 04-19-2010 - 6:56pm |
so i have been married almost 6yrs have 2kids im just stressed with my relationship, recently my neighbor return from the army and i have found that he is very interested in me and i think im kinda into him does it make me a bad person to have a little emotional maybe even phyiscal relationship that all i have been thinking about i think that if we do this i might get along better with my own husband kinda like getting the frustration out please give me alittle info









Welcome to MAS msteffey!
First of all, I think I should point out that your profile and even information in your signature is very specific, and anyone here reading who might know you in real life would know who you are. I don't think this is the sort of thing you'd like people to know you're posting. This folder gets a lot of lurkers I believe.
That said, having a fantasy about someone is fine, making it "real" gets very messy. It's never something I recommend or tell people to go ahead and do - I always think they should try to make their marriage better if they can, or try to leave it if they're miserable. Sounds hypocritical but affairs are so hard and hurtful (not just to the spouses either)!
But we're here to listen no matter what you decide. :-)
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Please be careful.
Affairs are never as easy as they seem to be from the outside. I don't know how many people (myself included) have gone into them thinking "Oh, it'll just be about sex" or whatever. It rarely is that easy. And rarely does it turn out the way you expect it to turn out. I think if I were you, I'd avoid all intimate contact with someone who is my neighbor too. Whew. That could turn REALLY ugly, REALLY fast.
Welcome to the board.