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| Thu, 03-18-2004 - 11:55am |
Hi everyone, I have been lurking for a while now.
| Thu, 03-18-2004 - 11:55am |
Hi everyone, I have been lurking for a while now.
I don't think anyone can tell you how to set the rules for your situation, but I would caution you to be sure and get everything on the table before you take another step. The one thing that is so critical is that you need to TELL NO ONE. If you really want to keep H from being hurt, there is no one you can trust -- except us of course. And even on the board I would caution you to be careful of names, dates, too many specific details.
Most important, make sure this is making you happy and is not just scratching a vague itch that might go away. Or that your actions will (in the long run) make you miserable. Then face the fact that, by the nature of the R, it may not last forever.
We're glad you're here... you found the right place. Let us know how it goes and if we can help. The guys and gals here are awesome.
thanks bunches.
Enjoy the early stages of your relationship and remember that an A can complicate things.