new here...hello and worried

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2009
new here...hello and worried
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Sun, 08-23-2009 - 5:04pm

I'm new here.

I'm in my early 40s, married, kids, and having an A with a MM who also has kids. Sometimes I can't believe it's actually happened. It's so surreal. I do love him but I also have tremendous guilt.

I've had a troubled marriage for a long time but I know I can't use that as an excuse.

He emails and/or texts me every day. Today he hasn't at all and I'm worried. I even sent him a message "are you OK?" and he hasn't responded.

I'm worried.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 7:25pm

Try not to worry. That has happened to me

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2009
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 12:48pm

How long have you been in your A?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2009
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 12:54pm

I would guess that although it's unusual for you to have not heard from him yet that it will likely be he's not in a safe place to text (maybe he couldn't go to work today) or something has happened to his phone.