New here,..Need advice!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2010
New here,..Need advice!
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Thu, 07-29-2010 - 10:48am

Hello!


The low down on me is I am a thirty-something woman with children and a husband.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-16-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 11:52am

Hello! I am new to this site also, posted one last week, similar name to yours - new and need help something like that, in case you want to check out my story.


Well I can tell you that there are success stories out there for sure, I have two co-workers from a few years back where spouses were divorced and they are still together.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 12:05pm

Welcome to MAS confused!

Success stories, yes, contrary to common belief, they do exist. There have been some here who have gone on to real life Rs, but they mostly disappear off this board and either go over to AAS (after the affair support) or they ride off into the sunset LOL. Some appeared to be success stories at first but they did not work out in the end. Others seem to be fine. In my real life I have two women close to me whose H's left them for another woman after long term marriages with children and in both cases it's been over 4 years and the man is still with the OW. So it happens, although I think it's still in a small percentage of cases.

Got nothing on the "where to meet" except dangerous outdoor places. WAY back when my now H and I were both living at home with our parents, we used to use his friend's apartment LOL! But an A is different and that would mean someone knowing about it and that's not always a good idea.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 2:28pm

Thanks for the welcome ladies!!


I appreciate the realistic advice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 3:21pm

well why do you think if you are found out you will have to end your relationship ? In fact then it will be much easier for you to leave your spouse and he wouldn't try to stop you .

I do think you & your AP can finally be together and get married but it is highly unlikely that it will remain secret till then . 99% cases it is found out .

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 3:29pm

Interesting statistics... care to share a link or two on here of where you got them from?

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Registered: 06-02-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 3:31pm

places for sex ?
i think the cheapest & easiest would be your bedroom if no one is home around those times of day . But it is risky too & that is why exciting .

best of luck

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 4:18pm

you know confusedin10, I too thought I was too smart to get caught but made just one mistake & she found out .
I really hope you wouldn't make even that one mistake.

......... There is another board for that around here, why don't you head that way.........

which another board ? for what ??