new! heres my story....

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-02-2008
new! heres my story....
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Thu, 10-02-2008 - 1:52pm

hi all!

who are you to judge the life i live?  i know i'm not perfect-
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2008
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 3:21pm

Hi and welcome!


The best I can tell you is that if he really is going to leave it will be when he is ready. But I would set a time frame so to speak. I mean I know you cannot really put a time limit on when someone is going to leave thier SO, but you cannot put your life on hold forever either. In situations like this I think communication is the most important. There are so many emotions involved in separation and divorce. Talk things out with him, and try to get a feel for where his head and heart really is. I wish you luck and keep us posted. Look forward to getting to know you too.







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