New name, but same old story
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New name, but same old story
| Tue, 08-26-2008 - 10:36am |
Hello wonderful ladies and gents. I used to be hisgirl_forever, but hated the lame a$$ name so I just changed it. I hope everyone is doing well today. As far as my situation goes, I am leaving my H tomorrow. There is no point in staying anymore. There is just no way things between us will work out. About 3 weeks ago I told him I was leaving and he begged , plead, and cried trying to convince me he'd change. Guess what, It's not happening and I feel exhausted both physically and mentally.

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Hi tennisfan08,
I made it clear that my M was over and H moved out last November. I have finally received a "separation" agreement from him and his lawyer. It was a joke so I've just hired my own lawyer as I just want what's fair.
I have several moments of indecision, all the time. I am deeply in love with my AP/BF and yes, eventually I would wish that we end up together in RL. He is M, so I am not hanging my hat on it. Having said that however, we have just had a period of NC for the last three weeks and he has been absolutely wonderful throughout. I think he's really starting to look at his life, I know he loves me back.
I feel up and I feel down...I feel good and I feel bad. The A itself is a roller coaster, my separation is a roller coaster but, I am hanging in and getting through each day...one day at a time. I hope you hang in and do the same...I've been told that it WILL get better :)
Take care of yourself,
benska
I'm new to this board, and wanted to say 'hello'.
Thanks bengalcats,
This is really inspiring. I am very happy for you and AP. I really needed to hear this today.
Hi tennisfan08.
Bengalcats -
You are new here - I think?? ;)
Greetings, Tgr!
LOL - Ok deal!!!
I'm sending lots of positive thoughts your way, that things work out the best way possible for you.
Keep us posted!
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