New poster here...my problem

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Registered: 06-20-2003
New poster here...my problem
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Fri, 11-07-2003 - 12:05pm
My guy lives serval hours away. He travels M-Thurs. I work at the main office and he comes in when needed from his home from where he travels. I know he has a girlfirend at home who lives with him. He doesn't really talk about her very much which I guess is good. I see her number on his cell. I know she doesn't know about me although she once found my number and called it. I didn't answer of course. He told me she asked about hte number he told her it was a business contact.

Since he travels out of town, he doesn't have to worry about her catching him. We spend at least one night a week together in his motel when he stays in town.

And when he goes home Thursdays to her, I find myself jealous. I have called his place a few times and she was there. He told her I was HIS MOTHER. He talked liked nothing was up.

I have called and hung up too, I just wanted to hear what she sounded like.

It is very hard to share him with HER. I am glad I get to see him once or twice a week but when Isuggest he stays for weekend he says he can't.

I mean they are not married so he is free game I fgure.

So do any of you have these kinds of issues. It is better when they travel? Or live in same place.

Any help would be greatfully accepted.

Laura

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Registered: 10-24-2003
Fri, 11-07-2003 - 8:53pm
I'm seeing a MM. Going in knowing this, I also know that his family comes first, as they should. I have my own family, and they come first. It's the price we pay for seeing someone who is "attached". Try to overcome the jealous feelings you have over his GF, because it's just a matter of time before it bleeds into your relationship. It's a poison that will ruin what you have with him.

Good luck!