New situation...seeking opinions
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New situation...seeking opinions
| Tue, 10-28-2003 - 5:45pm |
I haven't started a new thread in awhile, but something strange happened yesterday that has prompted me to. Things between me and my OM are just 'ok'...we're keeping it casual and friendly with the occasional romp here and there. However a *new* situation has surfaced and I'm not quite sure what to make of it. I've been friends with this guy at the gym for a few years now. We flirt heavily both in person and occasionally online. We have both made very suggestive remarks to each other, never really thinking that anything would ever come of it. I am extremely sexually attracted to this man, and I have a pretty good idea that the feeling is mutual. I recently had a birthday, and we were joking around the other day and I told him that he "owed me a birthday spanking". He came back with "Sure...when do you want it?" Still joking, I said "how about Monday, since you don't work that day." Well...to my surprise, he actually showed up at my house yesterday. So here we are, the two of us, alone in my house with sexual tension so thick you could cut it with a knife. I tried to dance around and avoid the "spanking" thing, but he kept bringing it up. I have to admit that I was starting to get excited and aroused at the mere thought of him touching me. I kept thinking to myself "this is SO wrong!!!"...but it was like I couldn't control myself. We sat on the couch and he motioned me to lay across his lap. I was laughing the whole time because I was kind of embarassed by the whole situation. I then felt his hands on my bottom, gently caressing...I just felt this big knot in my stomach...I was so nervous. He starts to work my pants down until my bare bottom was exposed. He continued to caress, massage, and spank (LOL)...and I have to say that I was thoroughly enjoying it..maybe a little too much. He asked if I wanted more...I wasn't sure what he meant by "more"...more as in more spanking and caressing, or more as in take things a little further. Well...I suddenly started to panic and jumped up off of him and said "NO, that's good for now". Nothing else happened and he left shortly after that. Later that evening, I saw him online and we began to chat about what happened. What started out as an innocent conversation soon turned into a full-blown online sex session, with him telling me in explicit detail what he WANTED to do if I had said I wanted "more". I have to say..it was quite arousing and has definitely intrigued me to the point where I may want to pursue this...yet on the otherhand, I don't want to lose this person as my friend. I'm scared to death that if we became intimate, it would destroy our friendship...especially since I see him almost on a daily basis at the gym. Ladies...what do you think is going on here? What should I do? Should I jump into this knowing that it will never be nothing more than just a "friends who have sex" type of relationship? Can you REALLY be friends after sex?
Bfly

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