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| Mon, 04-26-2004 - 9:13pm |
he says he isn't happy with his marriage. he hasn't been for as long as i've known him and a little over a year ago, his wife went off the pill without telling him and got pregnant to help their marriage. he wasn't at a place in his career where he wanted another child at that time. granted he loves the baby now, but now he has the added strain of not one, but two children on him, not to mention the unhappiness with his wife and his determination to be successful at his job, something i totally understand and support him in. but he won't leave her. i've never asked why not because that isn't my business. i'm just so frustrated right now because last week he got a very expensive cell phone bill and said his wife asked him why it was so high.
i want to be with this man so much. i don't want to necessarily be in a relationship with him though. i have so much going on in my own life right now to worry about a typical boyfriend, but i still want to pursue an affair with this man. he's really good to me, even going so far as to get a vasectomy. this was for him as much as it was for me. because of health reasons, it's best that i don't have children, nor do i particularly want children, but he didn't have to do that at all. so my point of my long rambling is...how long were y'all involved in the affair befor the actual sex commenced? and did your mm's shy away from it at first or were y'all the ones holding him off?
thanks so much in advance. none of my friends understand my issues with p or where i'm coming from. i'm so glad to find other women in my own situation.
thanks,
Lucky_me227
