newbie here

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Registered: 03-31-2010
newbie here
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Wed, 03-31-2010 - 4:26pm
hello everyone. new here, but not new to the situation. AP and i have been "together" for 9 years now....wow. looking forward to having a place to come to and vent and share happy times, as well as the frustrating. wont get into my story now, not sure if this is where i would do that or if there is another part of this board to do so. anyway, just wanted to say hello :)
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Registered: 03-30-2010
In reply to: neverx2001
Wed, 03-31-2010 - 4:34pm

Hi NeverX,


Welcome to the board. I'm new here also, joined yesterday matter of fact. We are here for support and if you ever need to vent then you know how to find us. Hope you are well.


 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 12-03-2009
In reply to: neverx2001
Wed, 03-31-2010 - 5:11pm

Welcome!


9 years?

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Registered: 07-24-2009
In reply to: neverx2001
Wed, 03-31-2010 - 6:49pm
Welcome.
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Registered: 03-31-2010
In reply to: neverx2001
Wed, 03-31-2010 - 7:35pm
thanks for the welcome everyone :) my situation has kind of recently changed. about three months ago, he and i just kind of stopped texting (our main form...actually only form of communication) i really feel that it was as unspoken-mutual "lets take a break" kind of thing. i really didnt know if where we stood, and had actually grown into that maybe it was over. a little background for you, 9 years ago in april is when he and i started our journey. he is a friend of my husband and things have always been tricky. but from the get go we knew we had to be very careful..and we both knew that neither one of us would or could leave our home lives for eachother. he has since gotten a divorce, and i am still married. he does have a girlfriend that he has probably been with for about 5 years now. why he still stayed interested in me, baffles me to this day. anyway as i wrote earlier, a few months ago things got very quiet between us and it was ok with me, i think we both needed a break and just went straight into the break. today, he contacts me...and i dont know what i want. 9 years is a long time, we have a lot of history and a lot of feelings that have been voiced and im not so sure anymore that i wanna walk away. dont really get to see eachother very often and that is the main thing that caused me to distance myself in the first place...*sigh* so here i go again i guess.