newbie here needs advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2004
newbie here needs advice
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Fri, 03-19-2004 - 9:01pm
Hi all

I used to post here a long long time ago. I was dating a MM for 9 months and it came the time to leave VA for NM for a new job or sit in VA and be miserable and waiting on MM to get a divorce, so I left. I have been here for 6 months and just got word last week from MM that he got divorced and he wants me to move back to VA and be with him. I dont know how to feel or what to do. I balled my eyes out in his arms the day I left and almost didnt go, and once I got here I go my new job and made new friends and have a new car, and I am happy in my life. Then out of the blue I hear from him. It has shook me up and I really do miss him. So do I drop my new job and run back to him, cause I remember when I would have done anything to be w/him and now I am happy in my life here w/out him and I am confused......please help me!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Fri, 03-19-2004 - 10:44pm
HEY

Maybe it's time for this guy to make a few sacrifices for you and to move to your town instead of you giveing up all you have a second time, If you really think he is worth haveing around that is.

F