Newbie....with affair questions...
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Newbie....with affair questions...
| Sun, 08-22-2010 - 1:02pm |
I came across this site - thought I would ask questions
| Sun, 08-22-2010 - 1:02pm |
I came across this site - thought I would ask questions
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You're right about the bigger vs smaller guy thing.
........Never at my or AP's house or marital bed, its off limits. To each their own, but I just think it would be a low blow to our spouses.....
well I really dont understand what is the big deal about having sex with AP on marital bed ? Why would it be a low blow and anything other than what we are already doing in a hotel room ?Asuming the spouse will never find out , marital bed or a hotel room makes no difference except the former can be risky but more exciting too . Saying this place is wrong that place is right is simply hypocrisy .
Best of luck
So... does this mean I'm initiated into the MAS club because I got a love letter from bestplayer???...cool.
Well, first I said to each their own...That means I'm not concerned about others just me. Why would I want to be in their marital bed? That's their bed. I don't want AP in mine either.
Okay so yeah I get what your saying, but the way I see it, it would be a low blow because I would purposely be throwing the A in the wife's face. Plus I don't want to be there, I don't need to know about his home life, it a safe zone for him as my home is my safe zone.
Its called being considerate....in a inconsiderate situation.
Again this is just my opinion...
wow - such good questions.
* i don't care when my AP has relations with his wife, and i expect the same consideration. i must have sex with my H to keep up the status quo, and ditto for him. i would never tell my AP that i was just with my H hours b4. i would shower for sure but i would never bring it up. the AP sex is by far sooo much better why would i want to lose that? ;)
*same day morning/night. not exciting with the H; always exciting with the AP!!
*first APs marital bed was available when the W left for out of town. he was fine with me being there, i actually think he enjoyed having me there, and i was fine too as long as he took down the monster huge wedding photo in the front room first b4 i came over. it was as if i was spending time at his place, intimate with him, and that was a really nice compliment b/c he trusted me enough to have me over. i would never have AP over to my place never ever ever and i think current AP is not comfortable with the idea either.
* please answer the phone if u must!
*it's not the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean! AP is a different girth and length; perhaps even technically smaller than H but i wasn't looking for a bigger D***. i was looking for a different "type" of guy. first AP was HUGE compared to H. current AP just rocks my world with his touch alone - amazing!!!! neither AP ever knew about my Hs endowment, etc. i keep that all very private. i don't think it is necessary to share, to be honest.
what had made u stay with your MAP for years? r u married, 2? how many years have u been seeing her?
* Say you not planning on seeing your AP on a certain day...but really wanted to. Your husband decides
....I was suppose to be at work and if I didnt he would of called there.
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