Newbie....with affair questions...

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Registered: 08-22-2010
Newbie....with affair questions...
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Sun, 08-22-2010 - 1:02pm

I came across this site - thought I would ask questions

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Registered: 08-22-2010
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 3:02pm

Sorry for the delay in responding...


I've been with my AP for 18 years total....


the first 9 years, I was single , the last 9 years I have been married. We stopped seeing each other for about 2 years when I got married...we both thought we could "stop" everything all together. But - its like a drug. We realized we needed that "fix" still.


AP and her husband just had their 25 year wedding anniversary. Its just wild to think that

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2010
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 5:04pm
and I am sure you
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Registered: 03-05-2008
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 9:01am

OMG!


What timing....lol....me and H

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2010
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 12:48pm

No actually I was pretty numb, couldnt believe that it was happening.

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Registered: 06-02-2010
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 1:14pm
wow ,
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2010
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 1:18pm
i guess
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2008
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 2:05pm

Same hour?..... no.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2010
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 2:09pm
No, not sure how to describe it.
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Registered: 08-22-2010
Tue, 08-31-2010 - 10:01am

I guess I was also surprised reading these boards...how many people have more than 1 AP at a time.


Which leads me to ask as well...


Has anyone been intimate with more than one AP on

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2010
Tue, 08-31-2010 - 10:36am

I think it turns you on to think about a woman with more than one man in a relatively short period of time??

That's fine, but I think you're kind of getting off on the stories here, which isn't really what this board is for.

Why not share instead what your AP has meant to you in all the years you've been together, what sort of problems you come up against, how you've handled communication, etc.

You could go to the "sexual fantasies" board and write a little story about what turns you on. Other people with the same fantasies would thank you for it!

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlfantasy

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