new.......just a few questions

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2003
new.......just a few questions
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Tue, 12-09-2003 - 8:22pm
Hi everyone! I am new to this website and would like to ask if this is the message board for me. I tried to read some of the messages posted....what do all the abbrevations mean?

If someone could explain to me what this board is for so I can see if it is the one for me to post on.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 8:28pm
hello smlsecret this board ppl who having affairs alot married women whith om also alot single women like me with mm married men.so are you single or married ans are you having affair with married man.we can help you gives soem more informantion about you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 8:31pm
Read the New and Old Members post from SweetC...

Anna
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 8:37pm
Ok, well I am in the military and I am deployed to Iraq right now...we have been here for 8 months and I am married...my husband is back in the states and the person I am having an affair with is married..his wife is back in the states. I love my husband more than anything in this world and we are happy, but this just happened...I guess the situation makes it more likely to happen. But I think we (me and the man I am having the affair with) both started this with the understanding that this is something that is going to happen here, but not back in the states. but I think that may have changed for him, I am not sure.

So do you think that this is where I can post and talk to you guys?
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 8:53pm

Hi smlsecret and welcome aboard,


You've definitely found the right place to post and get the support you need.

Sweet
Co-Community Leader My

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 9:06pm
Welcome, smlsecret. This is a great place for you to talk about your situation and hear from others that are in a similar situation. I am also M (married) having an A(affair) with a MM (married man). What would you like to talk about?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 9:15pm
hello sweetie please stay safe over their my prayer are with you.my brother was army for 12 years and his W is air force resvere but met she s till in air forse.becareful no one finds you and mm are having affair i think know having affair in militry is wrong.so happy you wnat to come be here girls great. we all here for yoyu and in prayers hope you both come safe and soon.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 9:29pm
thank you very much for your prayers. Yes, I know the regulation in the military on the topic...my MM and I both know it. I just was going crazy not having anyone to talk to about it....you cannot talk about those things with people here...it will be out and around before you finish your conversation. And we have way to much to lose to let anyone find out. But thank you for your thoughts and prayers and for the warm welcomes I have received on the board!!! :0)
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-23-2003
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 8:55am
You're most definately in the right place...you will find our forum to be non-judgemental and full of wonderful support and advice...

I am glad that you found us and we look forward to sharing our experiences with you.

Be safe and God Bless you in your missions

cl-liberalgirl

callmeliberal@hotmail.com

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2003
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 9:04am


it definitely sounds like this is the right place for you!

I call this place my "safe haven"... you can come here to cry, vent, laugh, talk about the ups and downs... as we are all on a rollercoaster too!! I've never been judged since I've been here, which has been several months now. we are all here to provide strength, support, encouragement, a listening ear, and most definitely, a shoulder to cry on.

welcome smlsecret, and many hugs!! :)


Complicated

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-03-2003
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 9:04am
Be careful... You do have a lot at stake if you are discovered. I can't imagine how you're managing to sneak away to be together without having a major risk of being discovered. I guess all of us run the risk of being discovered but in your case it would end up becoming pretty public if you were ever caught, wouldn't it? Plus you're right there together all the time... It has to be pretty hard to hide.