No Cheese at the End of the Maze

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No Cheese at the End of the Maze
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Sun, 10-24-2010 - 3:00pm

I must admit that I'm struggling with my feelings about AP the last few times we've gotten together.

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sun, 10-24-2010 - 7:41pm

Lol @ the hopping on over to EAS!

I think it is about the best end I could imagine to my A, with feelings just fading out like yours are doing.

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 4:49am

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 6:18am

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 8:16am

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mogulbunny wrote:
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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 11:31am
I didn't say that I am happy with the situation per the quote above, but I would guess that I don't have problem solving skills to deal with issues in my marriage, and neither does that "really great man I'm married to". H's history includes previous girlfriends that cheated on him. Maybe he's not so great as I make out that he is?
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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 12:00pm

I agree with Lexi: I think the only way to really know why you continue to have A's would be to go to therapy.

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 12:51pm

Hi Bunny,

Isn't ski season already underway? I think you would want to hit the sloped and clear your mind a bit..

Sometimes, it's all about expectations.. that those of us who expect "not much" from the A seem to fare better.. as soon as you throw in the "where is this leading to?" type questions, it gets tougher..

Does an A really need to lead to anywhere? That's a personal choice.

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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 1:02pm

Hi Mogulbunny,

I understand competely how you feel. The part when you said: Since I can't see the relationship resulting in anything more than it is currently, what's the point of carrying on? In my post on

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 03-03-2010
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 4:29pm

I guess it would be fair to say that when we're posting a discussion here, with everything that's flying around in our heads, we're not in the best mental state to be putting our thoughts out there.

What do I want?

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 5:39pm

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