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No kissing???
| Thu, 11-06-2003 - 6:19pm |
Hi all...I have a rather strange question/situation. I have a male friend who I have been friends with for 3 years. We are both M, no kids. I have always been attracted to him. We flirt heavily with lots of suggestive and sexually charged remarks flying between us. Things have always been fun and innocent between us...that is, until about 2 weeks ago. I guess you could say that we took things to a 'physical' level. Lots of holding and touching, but nothing else. Then the other day, he came over to my house and things went quite a bit further...more holding, touching, and exploring. However the one element that was missing was kissing. I kinda thought this was strange. Are some guys just not into the kissing thing? For me personally, I find it kinda hard not to kiss someone that I'm being intimate with. Does that make sense? There is a 'closeness' that I guess is implied with kissing...perhaps this freaked him out? I don't really know. I wanted to kiss him, but I didn't want to do something that would scare him off. Does anybody else have experience with this type of situation? How do you handle it? Is it maybe just too soon to expect a kiss from him? Or could it just be that he's not the kissing kind of guy? At this point, I'm not really sure where things are headed..but IF there is a next time, should I bring it up? Thanks!
Bfly
Edited 11/6/2003 7:13:13 PM ET by butterfly1550

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