No more I love you !

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
No more I love you !
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Sun, 07-12-2009 - 10:33am

My H finally packed his bags and he gone however, our divorce is still not finial.


“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
Sun, 07-12-2009 - 8:24pm

I lurk on this board, but I have to post this time. I can't let this post go by without responding.


Are you serious galcurve?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2009
Sun, 07-12-2009 - 11:49pm

Yeah, I am usually a big time lurker, but I'm with blue_belle44. PLEASE DON'T DO THIS!!! No man is worth the kind of emotional abuse that this guy dishes out. I think you need to get as far away from this clown as possible


Really, please reconsider. Take some time just to be by yourself.


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2009
Tue, 07-14-2009 - 12:27pm

Let's tell the people here what you're posting on another board.


Do you mind?


How he's giving you $$$ and everything you want.


I suggest you go with some others' opinion, and seek counseling.


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-18-2009
Tue, 07-14-2009 - 1:21pm

Have you also conveniently forgotten this post???

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlpostaffair&msg=1042.1&ctx=128

You need help, but NOT from this creep. Seek professional help!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
Tue, 07-14-2009 - 2:07pm
I am not sure if you can be friends once the feelings were there.Yes,they can subside for a while,they can disappear forever but if they are on surface,they will strike back.
Good Luck to you.
( Your AP is a nutty one,he might surprise you one day,be careful)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Wed, 07-15-2009 - 11:16pm

To be honest with you I think is both.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 2:26am

I urge you to go back to EAS. Also look at ways to sooth yourself, ways to find attention in a more positive manner, spend time with girlfriends, develop a hobby. These are things that will increase your self worth. You don't need a man to make you feel like a beautiful wanted woman. This is gained through exploring your inside and finding worth in who you are.


If you don't do this for yourself, do it for your kids. You don't want to put them in danger's way. I truly hope you can find some support in breaking free of this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2006
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 4:11am

Well,


The first step IS admitting your problem(s). Way to go! Now, find a counselor.