Nosey neighbors...
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Nosey neighbors...
| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 10:31pm |
Ok, I have a question I want to throw out there. My story in a nutshell...I'm a MW involved in a 'friends w/benefits' relationship with a MM. This arrangement we have has been going on for over 4 months now. My H works opposite hours that I do, so it makes it very convenient for MM to stop by on a certain day of the week that he's not working. This has pretty much been the only way in which we have been able to get together...he coming over to my house for a quick romp. Now before everyone lectures me on how risky this practice is...let me just say that I am fully aware of it. But I know that my MM would never even consider going to a motel...so that option is out of the question. My main concern is nosey neighbors. First off...let me clarify that I don't commiserate with ANY of my neighbors..infact for the most part, I don't even know their names with the exception of one...the guy next door to us. However, we're not on good terms...he's crazy, made threats against my H, cops are over there constantly, doesn't take care of his property, etc. In otherwords, your basic run-of-the-mill white trash. The problem is...the guy is on disability and doesn't work...therefore he has nothing better to do with his time than to spy on the rest of us. I'm sure he has seen my MM come and go on various occasions without giving it a second thought. But now that the frequency of the visits has increased, I'm wondering what he might be thinking. How should I handle this if he confronts either myself or my H? Other than the obvious...DENY, DENY, DENY...is their anyone out there in a similar position that can offer some tips on how to handle a nasty, nosey neighbor? Oh...for the record, MM parks down the block and walks to my house.
Bfly
Edited 1/27/2004 10:35:34 PM ET by butterfly1550

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Hey Bfly,
I guess I'm in similar circumstances... but don't think I have any advice to offer.
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