not all it's cracked up to be

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Registered: 02-27-2005
not all it's cracked up to be
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Thu, 02-12-2009 - 10:54am
I used to be around this board all the time- until my AP actually got a divorce and it was final.
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Registered: 02-05-2009
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 1:12pm

Wow that is horrible (((hugs))) I am so sorry for you. Thank you for sharing.

Indeed, it's always something in the back of my mind - if my MM is able to live a deceitful life with me for the past 3 years, what kind of a person is he, really... it's always bugging me. I am not 100% convinced I could ever completely trust him, even if we were married one day. Still sorting that out in my mind.

good luck with your baby and hopefully your BF will wake up and take responsibility for his new family.

trixie xo

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Registered: 08-19-2008
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 1:12pm

So sorry to hear about your situation. Please take care of yourself and the baby. Even if the jerk didn't want a child he still going to have one. Go after him for child support when the baby is born.

Meantime, take good care of yourself. You'll be in my prayers.



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Registered: 01-21-2009
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 1:36pm

Fun,


Just curious- Did you talk about having children with this man before you had sex? If you did, then he's a total jerk. If you didn't discuss it, then you were having unprotected sex with risks involved. If it was an accident (on pill, etc) i feel for you tremendously. Take care of yourself and your baby and like G2 says stick him for child support.


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Registered: 01-17-2009
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 2:04pm
Wow! I am so sorry he treated you this way. You certainly do not deserve that no matter what the situation was with BC. I hope you are going after him for child support.
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Registered: 02-27-2005
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 3:09pm

Thank you all for your support, everyone here was always so amazing!

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Registered: 08-02-2000
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 4:07pm

Oooooh does this kind of thing make my blood boil! Well, he may not want another kid, but he's got one now, and though he may think he can just shrug off the responsibility, a judge will see things VERY differently. Go after this selfish pig. At the very least, he needs to be paying child support. It takes two to tango, or did he think you got pregnant all by yourself? What a tool.

I am curious, though. Weren't there any signs that he was like this?

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Registered: 02-27-2005
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 4:43pm

Hi Silly-