Not always what it's cracked up to be.

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Registered: 01-03-2004
Not always what it's cracked up to be.
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Sat, 01-03-2004 - 10:42pm
I haven't posted here in a long time. My mm left his wife over a year ago (the divorce STILL isn't final!) He's been living with me the past 5 months, and the "honeymoon" is way over. I have been divorced for 9 months, and know I made the right decision leaving my ex, but I still don't know if my mm is all I had hoped he'd be. I don't trust him....Gee maybe cause that IS how WE got together! Would he be faithful to me? I really can't say for sure. Who can, really? Things change after the newness wares off of any relationship. I am reminded quite frequently of why I left my ex. We have a son together. I am beginning to wonder though if I just wanted my mm so bad because I never thought I 'd really get him. That whole cat & mouse thing we'd play back in our younger days. ya know? Well I got him, now what'll I do with him?

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Sun, 01-04-2004 - 12:47am
HI Love

I hope lots of people read your post, you have returned to the real world and as one person posted nothing gets you over a MM/MW faster then liveing with them.

Trust, your relationship was not built on trust, you know how he acts when certain conditions are preasent in his relationships, reproduce them and he may well act the same way (most people are like that not just people in A).

Cuting him loose my be in your best interest if you decide he can not be trusted ,better then worrying all the time that just gives you gray hair.

I wish you well

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