Not Going so Well...

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Not Going so Well...
21
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 9:16pm

For those who read my post about pulling back, I guess this is a bit of an update.

anotherseyes

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2007
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 7:18am

Hmmm... It sounds to me like he took a longer look at your e-mail, and, together with the somewhat joking comments you made about his e-mails making it "harder" on you to keep your resolve, he's now keeping things a little shorter and cooler than before to help you out.

Proud to be a



You've got a lot of choices. I
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 8:15am

I agree with whats been said. He took

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 10:45am

Hugs to you another. I can only imagine how hard this all must be. I know you want that old friendship that you both shared

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


<

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 11:06am

Thank you ladies!

So typical of him to always be concerned about my feelings.

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 3:08pm

I guess thats the main difference between men and women. Women want to feel loved when they are under stress while men need space.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 4:48pm

Well, I think today may be worse:

I sent him my usual "Good Morning" text this morning, then followed up with another text telling him that because I wanted him to start his day well (and winked), I wanted him to know that I'm having a hard time not being flirty/playful with him, that it feels unnatural.

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2009
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 5:47pm
I don't think you're coming to an end, my guess is he's really busy, didn't want you to think he was ignoring you while trying to respect your wishes as well. (((Hugs)))
katuk
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 8:34pm

Aww...the thing is, you aren't happy the way it is, and getting to somewhere else will probably have to be painful, even if that destination is being with him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 8:51pm

Thank you Jane :smileyhappy:

I sent him one more email this afternoon saying "I give", and that I hoped he had a good day and it went by quickly (works 2nd shift).

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 9:03pm

Well at least you are still talking and keeping lines of communication open.

Pages