Not over afterall...

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Registered: 04-03-2003
Not over afterall...
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Fri, 03-12-2004 - 2:58am
Hm, how many of you knew it wasn't over??

He came by and we talked for about an hour and a half. We cried and talked and hugged. He smoothed things over with the wife after he left here. He still Loves me, wants nothing to change, didn't mean what he had said this morning.

He knows he screwed up royally in the trust department with me. He's gonig to have to "earn" my trust in the "abondonment" department (his words). He just got wound up and didn't mean what he said, wasn't expecting the wife to say everything she said.

The fact is i don't want to end it right now, i *am* happy, so we're giving it another chance.

Thank you so much for all who posted to my sad post. i am still a bit sad because my trust was damaged. But i can understand saying something you don't mean in an emotional moment. i read and re-read all your posts becuase i know someday this will be over, i just hope it's isn't for a long time and that it isn't quite so abrupt.

Shortest breakup in the history of the world huh? He used the words hopelessly in love. Gotta give him credit for that LOL.

Thanks to all for understanding and being supportive,

jen

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Registered: 03-12-2004
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 6:48am
Was just throwing that thought out there. I do wish you luck and happiness. Obviously, you are a rational, intelligent woman who knows what she is doing.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 8:45am
I was just curious about your screen name, that's all.
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Registered: 03-12-2004
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 9:04am
I'm sorry Juliet, didn't mean to take it the wrong way. Cricket is the name of my dog.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 9:13am
Its OK. :) To tell you the truth, I was a little upset with your post to my friend Jenny.

Peace to you.
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Mon, 03-15-2004 - 12:52pm
Thanks to both of you and anyone who has read my drama and offered support ;)

Cricket it's okay, i think i got your point, and i tried my best to expain it. it's hard to put thoughts and feelings into written words sometimes. i get the irony that the OW is b*tching about trust, i really do.

Juliet, thank you for the support. No one else really understands except for the women here and i have come to depend on the support i get here!!!

~jen

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Mon, 03-15-2004 - 12:57pm
You are welcome, jen. Anytime.

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