NOT overthinking!

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Registered: 12-06-2003
NOT overthinking!
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Tue, 12-09-2003 - 7:33pm
Thanks to all of you, especially liberalgirl.

Because you're right, enjoying the moment and keeping it simple is all I *can* do.

Just when I'm about to worry to death over why he didn't call me, why we didn't have a private moment today, why, why, why... I then thought... well, what of it? I saw him several times today and it was clear from his look and his smile that he was perfectly fine with the decision he made yesterday about being in this EMA. And we had agreed yesterday to take it just one day at a time. Duh. So we are. And we have private time already scheduled for tomorrow, so what can I possibly complain about? That he didn't read my mind and call me just to say hi?

I have to remember that he IS married to someone else... that work and family comes first for BOTH of us... and I could see quite clearly today that he is happy with the "us" we do have. So why question?

So you're right. I have to NOT overthink things. Freakin' waste o' time.

Thank you for the reminder. It was timely. I am glad to be here.

Anna

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 8:37pm
Welcome Anna, I also have to remind myself not to overthink the situation and just enjoy it. I was bothered that my MM did not respond to an e-mail this week. My MM said, "you're thinking too much. Just because I do not respond on the same day does not mean I have changed my feelings." It was great to hear him say that. Enjoy your private time tomorrow, Anna!