Not quite an affair...what do ya think?
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Not quite an affair...what do ya think?
| Mon, 02-16-2009 - 12:37pm |
How do I sort through all of this that is happening?
| Mon, 02-16-2009 - 12:37pm |
How do I sort through all of this that is happening?
You have problems at home you need to sort out. Adding a OM into this type of a mix could get very ugly and dangerous. It's like adding crap onto the loads of crap you're already carrying on your head.
I would suggest, forget about getting involve with a OM for now and decide what you need to do with this troubled (from the start) M. Clearly you both need counseling, but if he won't go, then go by yourself. Maybe the T can shed some lights into why you are striving to keep this very dysfunctional lifestyle with your H and now contemplating adding more drama into your life. What is the pay-off for you in all of this?
it is all very chaotic (base on your post) and something's gotta give (which is probably the cause of your health issues). Hopefully a T can help you sort it out. Your M problem is like a broken bone and getting into an A with OM is like putting band-aid on a broken bone. It is not the cure, could only potentially get fatal. You need to get down and fix the broken bone first. I think.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
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