not ready to stop...

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2010
not ready to stop...
12
Fri, 06-18-2010 - 9:58am

ok i have been lurking around reading these postings and have finally decided to come out...I started off on the EAS board but I realize that I'm not ready to end my affair right now..so I'm here for some advice.

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 11:27pm
I love what Lucy says here.
Community Leader
Registered: 06-08-2010
Sun, 06-27-2010 - 11:36pm
I have read all the posts here and some really good things have been said! I, too, have been finding ways to keep my A in its place and to focus on my H and family when I am with them. My AP is moving out of his apt tomorrow (he is S) and so I told him I would help him load stuff for a bit. I am looking forward to spending time with him. When we say "goodbye", I am then going to try a week of NC since my H and family are leaving for vacation. He isn't moving far away at all, so I know that even if I don't get any texts/emails while I am gone, he will still be there when I get back. Not obsessing about it
helps! I will focus my time on my H and family. :)
but I am not ready to stop my A, either. I also struggle with feelings of "what is wrong with me?" I haven't figured that out, yet.

Pages