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| Tue, 05-11-2004 - 2:36pm |
Hope you don't think I'm too out of line here. I was just reading your other thread about passwords and saw your last post, and I had to ask you to clarify.
You mentioned that your H thinks your A is over but knows about it to some degree so he doesn't completely trust you. Then you mentioned your OM doesn't think you got back together with your H.
Am I right in drawing the conclusion that you are hiding the truth about each relationship from the other?
If this is the case... really, you need to consider taking a break from *both* and figuring out what you want and need. You stand a very good chance of losing both men if they ever found out the truth. It's just my opinion, but I would think you need at least one of these relationships to be established on a foundation of truth.
Yes, I have been having an A and have been dishonest with my W about it, and I'm not proud of that. But my OW knows everything about it, knew the situation with my W, knew where she stood and made her own decision to wait and see. If you want to have a future with either of these men, I think you should consider coming clean with one of them or ending it with one of them.
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