nothing changes w/him

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Registered: 10-03-2008
nothing changes w/him
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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 6:30pm

it never gets old in the almost year we've been dealing, it stays exciting, i wonder if it will ever die...


the week starts off like it always has..texting from 6am until i arrive at work.....i get there...ap walks in, speaks to everyone, just as charming as can be...i'm dressed with my "glad rags" on, as always, all the men smile. i speak to someone who's been out for a while, and ap says "is that the only person you see" and gives a grin.

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 8:23pm

I loved your post!..LOL My AP and I talk all day on the phone back and forth and then see each other at the gym and have all those funny..flirty exchanges as well. Very exciting and fun It has been about 7 months and I am very very far from bored!


Boodle

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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 8:50pm

boodle i hope this lasts as long as it can...and i will say it again, i never set out to have him..i don't think most of us did with our AP's...it just happened...really...and i still am not out to steal, get, or acquire him...it just is what it is...we liken it to us loving one another in addition..i'm single and never married, and i don't have another BF or AP, neither does he but, he's a "MM"....sort of like ya love your kids equally but it's

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 8:56pm

Too funny! My friend at the gym is always asking me if him and I are seeing each other I am like why? She said becauee he never stops looking at you and everytime you guys look at each other you are having sex with your eyes. I am like nooo..really?

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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 9:05pm

now that's funny because i was looking straight at his package when we were talking and he cracked up and then text me when he got to his vehicle for work, that he wanted to "F" me in my stilettos...lol...lol


have fun..and work it out..don't forget the cardio then strength training, eat a banana afterwards to replenish the potassium lost by sweating (no gatorade,,too much salt) and remember your water


i just lost over 160lbs which they also didn't know there either..but got fit as a fiddle without any plastics...(he knows because i revealed and he loves my body)


later and have fun..

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss