Nothing still

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Registered: 09-07-2008
Nothing still
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Sat, 12-13-2008 - 8:31am
Ok...well yesterday AP answered the phone like normal and we talked on my way to work. He asked me how I was. Said he missed talking to me while he was gone. Told me to have a good day. Well through out the day I sent a few texts telling him I was glad we got to talk after a week. Told him I hoped he was having a good day. That he needed to rest this weekend. Reminding him that today is the 13th...3 months today that we have been together. I have gotten nothing in return. NOTHING!!!!! I am so mad right now. I don't understand. He use to tell me goodnight every night. He use to text me every night when he got home. If he missed me so much why isn't he returning any? I don't understand. So I am not calling or sending any today and see what he does. I am just going to wait and see. You know I am not going to chase him which is what guys want. If he wants me he is going to have to talk to me and prove that. GRRRRRR a million times...I am MAD!!!!
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Registered: 02-22-2008
In reply to: algirl2008
Sat, 12-13-2008 - 4:51pm

You talked to him yesterday and you're getting mad at him for NC already ? Wow....
Girl, you are in trouble ! You need to be able to stand more than a day or three without going bonkers if you want to survive in an A. You will get used to it. The newness wears off and there might be 1000 reasons for him not to contact you. He will probably contact you when it's safe for him to do so. Maybe his W is suspicious ? You never know...

Relax, sit on your hands and try to keep your cool.


Edwina
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Registered: 12-11-2008
In reply to: algirl2008
Sat, 12-13-2008 - 5:58pm
The newness does wear off and the levels of contact change...mostly diminish. I think that's one of the hardest things to get used to in an A. Why doesn't he text/call/IM as much now as he does in the beginning?