now i need help!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
now i need help!
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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 12:51pm
girls what the hell is happining to me. i am not sure if anyone read my post regarding a younger man i now work with, well if not he has been flurting and being very playful and at first i didn't think much of it until he asked me for a kiss in a playing manner, well since then he has asked again and the way he looks at me, and today we were talking and i had some hershey kisses on my desk and he asked for one and i said sure sice you can't get a real one take a chocolate one and he says ya i know, and then i said are you tryin to get me in trouble or get a divorce and he says yes and walks a head of me. then we talk again and he says why don't i take the call he is going to on my way home cause it is in the city i live in and i said i am too beautiful to get dirty i leave the dirty work for you and he say oh really and laughed so i said whats so funny and he says naughin and i said you are gonna get me in trouble, and then we stopped talking, what the hell is going on, he is cute and young and has plenty of time but has a girlfriend he claims they broke up and he always comes to me for advice reagrding there relationship, i have the urge to kiss him but feel as though that would be bad help me!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 03-26-2003 - 12:59pm
i think it is pretty plain and simple, he wants you. now you have 2 choices. 1- accept his advance or 2- tell him you are not interested. the ball is in your court. keep us posted.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 03-26-2003 - 1:04pm
Hey honey sorry your going through this. It's not an easy thing. My only advice is if you don't feel it's right don't do it. Trust yourself to make the right decision. Take is slow and we're here if you need us. Blue