Now what???

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2009
Now what???
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Fri, 12-11-2009 - 5:13pm
ok so i posted here last week. I was having problems with my AP. Then everything blew up and i took advice from people here and just stopped talking to her for a week. I really wanted to call or text her but i stayed strong and didnt. Now the other nite i got a text late at nite saying she saw somethign that reminded

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Registered: 10-25-2007
In reply to: stargazerjoe
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 6:48pm
No, you are not stupid. We all do it. I do think that ignoring her a little was the right thing to do. It drives us crazy,lol. Before you talk to her or even think about getting things started again, you need to think about it and come to a decision as to what you really want. If you don't want to be with her, don't make her think that you do. Be honest with her. No need for games. If you realize that you DO want to be with her, explain how you don't want things to go on the way that they are, with jealousy and whatnot. Women need communication. How long have you been with her? I didn't read your other post.