I cannot resist a story about A partners getting together in RL!
Well, I for one am going to tell you to go for it! You are so lucky that he was willing to do all that to be with you. I pray every day that my M AP/BF will decide to do the same thing. Our R is pretty much out in the open, as much as it can be that is but...he still lives with his W. I love him deeply and so I'm willing to live like this for now.
I will tell you that if he said to me right now...let's move and be together, I would do it in a heartbeat! I have a GREAT job and a very nice place but I would give it all up for him.
Of course he's going to be conflicted, they're his children (I'm guessing they are younger?). I feel for you and this new change that you are about to go through.
All very very valid points WellHonestly - thanks for making sure that the whole picture gets out there -
If you've been there too - we are kindred spirits - I remember well that whole thing of him being the only person I knew here - ugh - yeah that was not a lot of fun at the time.
Hi trtlehi,
I cannot resist a story about A partners getting together in RL!
Well, I for one am going to tell you to go for it! You are so lucky that he was willing to do all that to be with you. I pray every day that my M AP/BF will decide to do the same thing. Our R is pretty much out in the open, as much as it can be that is but...he still lives with his W. I love him deeply and so I'm willing to live like this for now.
I will tell you that if he said to me right now...let's move and be together, I would do it in a heartbeat! I have a GREAT job and a very nice place but I would give it all up for him.
Of course he's going to be conflicted, they're his children (I'm guessing they are younger?). I feel for you and this new change that you are about to go through.
Take care and let us know what happens!
benska
******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over againReally great input WellHonestly -
As anyone that's been around the board for a while knows - picking up and moving to be with my former AP/current BF is exactly what I did.
I moved 1100 miles away from the only home I've ever known - and my entire family.
Tgrbabe - Thank you for sharing your story with me.
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Wellhonestlynow -
Thank you for your post!
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Im all for a leap of faith.
******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over againAll very very valid points WellHonestly - thanks for making sure that the whole picture gets out there -
If you've been there too - we are kindred spirits - I remember well that whole thing of him being the only person I knew here - ugh - yeah that was not a lot of fun at the time.
Well, there has been a development in this whole saga.
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