Now what?

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Registered: 08-08-2008
Now what?
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Wed, 08-27-2008 - 11:32am

Today is my AP/BF's birthday!

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Registered: 05-17-2003
In reply to: trtlehi
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 11:54am

Hi trtlehi,

I cannot resist a story about A partners getting together in RL!

Well, I for one am going to tell you to go for it! You are so lucky that he was willing to do all that to be with you. I pray every day that my M AP/BF will decide to do the same thing. Our R is pretty much out in the open, as much as it can be that is but...he still lives with his W. I love him deeply and so I'm willing to live like this for now.

I will tell you that if he said to me right now...let's move and be together, I would do it in a heartbeat! I have a GREAT job and a very nice place but I would give it all up for him.

Of course he's going to be conflicted, they're his children (I'm guessing they are younger?). I feel for you and this new change that you are about to go through.

Take care and let us know what happens!

benska

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Registered: 03-01-2008
In reply to: trtlehi
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 4:47pm
Put anything affair related aside for a moment.

 

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: trtlehi
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 5:02pm

Really great input WellHonestly -


As anyone that's been around the board for a while knows - picking up and moving to be with my former AP/current BF is exactly what I did.


I moved 1100 miles away from the only home I've ever known - and my entire family.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 08-08-2008
In reply to: trtlehi
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 6:22pm

Tgrbabe - Thank you for sharing your story with me.

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Registered: 08-08-2008
In reply to: trtlehi
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 6:27pm

Wellhonestlynow -


Thank you for your post!

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Registered: 03-01-2008
In reply to: trtlehi
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 8:06am

Im all for a leap of faith.

 

 

 

 

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: trtlehi
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 12:18pm

All very very valid points WellHonestly - thanks for making sure that the whole picture gets out there -


If you've been there too - we are kindred spirits - I remember well that whole thing of him being the only person I knew here - ugh - yeah that was not a lot of fun at the time.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 08-08-2008
In reply to: trtlehi
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 2:46pm

Well, there has been a development in this whole saga.

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