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| Thu, 01-08-2004 - 1:37pm |
Well I had left this board because my H had found out about the A. That was last month. On January 1st MM had the worst argument he had ever had with his W and left the house that night and called me and we spent the night together, something that we had planned before and never happened. He was very upset and said that he was mostly thinking about his daughter. On that night we had sex but I asked him during if he was ok to do it and he said yes but then stopped by making an excuse that I was tired. I really didnt think that after what he had gone through that it was ok for us to have sex, I don't know. Well after that he was depressed, but still asking me how my situation has been going and what I am going to do. We have been spending alot of time together that we could never do before. He moved into another room in his house and he says that he is going to get a divorce after taxes and doesnt know what to do about the house. I had asked him after this happened if he would like to give me a chance if things didnt work out with her and he said yes. They have an agreement that he and her don't have to ask each other where the other has been or tell where they are going. Basically, he says, he is living there for room and board until he finds something. I already left my house. We both keep saying to each other that one or the other is going to go back to W/H and we both say no. We have not had any physical contact since that night and he said that there should be no sex for now to be on the safe side, whatever that means, but he does talk about it and wants to. I am just content with spending time with him, but not knowing what comes next is killing me.
Sally

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go out this weekend and dance your a$$ off, drink some beers (or whatever your poison of choice), work out, read an entire book with a bag of popcorn, whatever turns you on! enjoy!!!!!!!!
gurl
Sally
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