Oh boy....

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Oh boy....
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Fri, 08-03-2012 - 5:34pm

Let's just say that I rocked the hair.  Okay, I can't just say that because that would be booooring and dominatrix hair doesn't allow for boring.

I'll start out by saying that I stopped short of making an actual physical move but boy oh boy...oh boy.  I am in trouble with this one.  

I was in full form and feeling very sassy when he arrived this morning.  Waited for just the right time and then asked him when he was going to tell me about that dream he had about me.  He immediately shot back that he can't tell me, he has to show me and then popped his head over the horse to look me right in the eye.  I leaned in and said, "You're making yourself blush."  He leaned in and said, "But I made you blush too."  And then some woman walked in with her damn dog.  I hate tourists.

I brought up the topic that the girls in the office were trying to figure out what it was about him that made him so magnetic and that while I didn't participate, I listened and was amused at some of the suggestions.  What I didn't say but was ready to if he'd asked was why *I* didn't participate (that would have been a dead giveaway that it's not just flirting) and what I thought the real answers were (he fills out wranglers like you wouldn't believe, piercing blue eyes, a growl to his voice that makes you shiver and just his overall "don't eff with me" persona that brings out the basic instincts in me).

Typical back and forth until this good looking guy walks in and stands there watching for a while (that location is big on tourists).  I didn't pay any attention to him beyond noticing him walk up.  But I noticed that my guy noticably changed.  It's amusing to watch men puff up like roosters when competition is around.

We wrap up, go to the other place and when I get out of my truck I hold out a bag of grapes and ask him if he wants one.  He gives me a double take and says, "Are you kidding me?" and blushes.  I do believe I just uncovered a part of his dream about me >:smileyhappy:   Then he looks at me with that look that just makes me tingle to my toes and says, "You know I didn't want to say anything with that guy standing there but you have a really nice ass."  and then he walks away.  Wait..what..hold up..omfg.  You can't walk away after saying THAT!  So I jokingly say, "well thanks...wait, hold up.  Do you mean you thought that GUY had a really nice ass?"  Because that's how I roll when I'm caught off guard.  I make dumb jokes while my brain is spinning 90 miles an hour trying to make sense of what just happened.  And by the way, that's the sexy librarian in me.  To which he turns to face me and says, "No, I think you have a really great ass."  Damn dominatrix in me went mute and I blushed, which made him laugh.  I haven't heard that phrase uttered since I was 18 years old but I now have a new favorite pair of jeans.  And yeah, I know it sounds piggish but that's total cowboy and I absolutely love it.

That was about it though.  I no longer wonder if.  I wonder when.  We went out for breakfast, had a nice conversation and when I went to get back in my truck he asked me if my office at the other location was air conditioned.  I said no and he gave me a sideways glance and said, "it was in my dream about you."  I told him I'd get it in the budget immediately.

It may be 3 weeks before I see him again unless we have a cold snap (he promised he'd go riding with me when it cools off) or if we have an unscheduled meeting.  Any thoughts/suggestions on how to progress this?  I think I'm going to go nuts if it continues like THIS and in the winter we shut down the ranch so I won't see him more than once a month...won't see him at all in December.  Walking away now isn't an option.

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Sat, 08-04-2012 - 7:05pm
Just tell him you want to sleep with him, the worst he can do is turn you down. If you tell him, his visits may not be so far apart. Good luck!
~Sunny~
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Registered: 10-26-2010
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Sun, 08-05-2012 - 8:41am
Once you change the fantasy to reality, it's all different. Never know which way the ball is going to roll.
~Sunny~