Oh, no here we go....
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Oh, no here we go....
| Wed, 04-08-2009 - 3:07pm |
If you haven't seen my intro it's under the "vent" section of this forum.
| Wed, 04-08-2009 - 3:07pm |
If you haven't seen my intro it's under the "vent" section of this forum.
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It's just like when you're dying to say something and it takes all your will power to bite your tongue.
Hi Kat,
your posts give me the impression that you think it's 'bigger than both of us' and 'inevitable'. Which is never the case. A's happen because both people make a conscious decision to be in one. No one can force you to do anything you're not interested in doing... right?
If you don't want it to happen, then act normally and if he makes a move just say you're not interested in an extra marital fling. Don't flirt with him. Don't look at him in the eyes for any extended period of time. Keep the meeting focused on your DD and tell him you need to leave quickly because your DH is waiting for you. He'll get the message.
good luck,
trixie
Kat,
Hi.
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Please know that I do not want this A to happen...
We were only trying to help you with the angle you gave us.
Kat,
Hi.
My guess is that you came to this site to commiserate with others who are in that "giddy" stage.
"I was really looking for others that are where I am now...that know how these feelings overwhlem you while you're living it.."
Kat, we all know what those feeling are like and how they can overwhelm you...we also know how it can turn your life into a train wreck. You DID state you didn't want an A to happen. I think you got very nice, thoughtful replies. If you expect a bunch of cheerleaders, you've come to the wrong site.
As someone who is also in the medical field....MD's (if that's what you were alluding to) are the WORST. You mentioned how you felt the office staff noticed it...well, perhaps they have witnessed this before. Be careful.
"If I'm just going to get preached at, I'll just not post."
Kat, again I really don't think you were preached to. I would call it "warned". Those of us reading your posts can spot the red flags very easily.
Take care.
(probably shouldn't have made that blanket statement about MD's...sorry)
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