Oh no! Not again!
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| Wed, 05-05-2004 - 8:57am |
I'm actually an odd mix of feelings about this. Yeah, part of me is upset. There's another part of me that is sick of it all and just doesn't care. I don't care what his W says. Don't want H to be hurt (any more than he has been) but part of me has this "whatever" feeling - W will say whatever she's going to say and H will think whatever he's going to think. I'll just deal with whatever happens.
As for MM, I do worry about him. But I also know that he's had about enough of his W and although he doesn't want to hurt his kids, he won't be devastated if they get a D (which W claims she's filing for today). At this point, I just want whatever is going to happen to hurry up and happen so I can get on with the business of coping. For my own sanity, though, I'm thinking about telling MM not to contact me until he is out of his house and well on his way to being divorced. It would stink because I do love MM very much (and I'm not convinced they actually will D). But I think it will be for the best. And ultimately, if he and I are meant to be together, we will be. I believe that.
BLEH!!!! What a yucky morning! Thanks for letting me vent.
GB2

AND do not get any further involved with W. if she calls, hang up. if she emails, delete them before you even think about reading whatever crap she's stirring up. put some space/distance between them and you and H and get some peace.
seriously, MM is a big boy. it's his W and his M, not yours. take care of yourself and your life. just step back and let his chips fall where they may!!
good luck and hang in there.
life
For those of you out there who think you won't be caught - remember that a chain is only as strong as its weakest link. I love MM dearly, but he is NOT good at hiding things from his W. Doesn't matter how great I am at keeping things quiet if he isn't.
Anyway, I'm just going to hang out and see if this blows over. PLEASE cross your fingers for me! And thanks again. I really needed a little support today.
GB2
PS: Had to chuckle over your comment about not seeing MM for a while. I haven't seen him in over 8 months! LOL!!!
disengage fully from both of them. stand back and let them implode! you are better off out of it!! oh and tell stupid-head MM not to call or email you from home, duh..... how stupid can he be?!
life
Anyway, thanks again! I really appreciate the kind words and support.
GB2