I am, but he is only 3 years younger than me. We are both in our 30's. Technically I am the older woman, but we are so close, not really sure I qualify for the older woman category.
My xAP was 2 years older than me. There was a thread long time back about age differences and it reflected that almost same age men and women was more common, with few years here and there. older men sometimes prefer younger women.How that works, beyond my reasoning !
Anyone ? how does an A or any relationship work with 15 years of difference with man being the older one?
My primary AP is 10 years older than me. He really is my soulmate.
There is another man, whom I love dearly, that I am intimate with once or twice a year who is 16 years older than me. It works for me because he is sexy, powerful, makes me feel safe and completely cherished. Most of the year we are just friends and he is a wonderful friend to have. But when the very rare opportunity arises, we are able to be together and it really is just an extension of our friendship.
But on the older woman question, one of my neighbors who has been after me is 9 years younger than I am. Another guy at work who makes no secret of his crush is 12 years younger than me. I'm just not interested in younger men though, although I have nothing against the idea of it.
Thanks circe2005 , for the insight! Older men can be more caring ,sensitive and a kinda 'let go' attitude towards our sometime unrealistic attitude as well, i guess! and maybe less ego issues as a younger woman by the side is anyway a ego booster!
like you all know, i have had many sexual A's in my life.Twice i've been the younger man with older woman.The reason was that these women had the drive and experience to satisfy my highly erotic fantasies.they were getting older and wanted to experience more encounters before they were too old to do the kinky stuff.The difference was huge.i was 20, she was 42.Then another one ,when i was around 35 and she was 50 something but hooot! Now that i am single and a bit older ha ha ha , i prefer about the same age me as old are getting older ! The younger women dont always go in for older guys.
Older men who are lucky to get hold of a younger woman,will do anything to keep them.Now, for instance,me and her ha ha ha. She is quite younger to me and apart from having the hots for her,i am a bit protective towards her,if that makes sense?I confided in one of my freinds w/o giving 'her' true identity, and he told me the 'side effects' of having her ha ha ha .Will i be bothered if IF she gave in to my wanting to know her.Whats that guys name again!!
The perspective changes entirely when the men get older.more than sex ( not me included here! my other buddies)they need emotional satisfaction,whatever that means.they want to stop wandering like animals and find inner peace ( again, whatever that means).but strangely enough, i feel peace when i am around her.Giving out vibes? i dont know.thats what i want to know.
I am.
I'm 6 years older than him.
My xAP was 2 years older than me. There was a thread long time back about age differences and it reflected that almost same age men and women was more common, with few years here and there. older men sometimes prefer younger women.How that works, beyond my reasoning !
Anyone ? how does an A or any relationship work with 15 years of difference with man being the older one?
My primary AP is 10 years older than me. He really is my soulmate.
There is another man, whom I love dearly, that I am intimate with once or twice a year who is 16 years older than me. It works for me because he is sexy, powerful, makes me feel safe and completely cherished. Most of the year we are just friends and he is a wonderful friend to have. But when the very rare opportunity arises, we are able to be together and it really is just an extension of our friendship.
But on the older woman question, one of my neighbors who has been after me is 9 years younger than I am. Another guy at work who makes no secret of his crush is 12 years younger than me. I'm just not interested in younger men though, although I have nothing against the idea of it.
Thanks circe2005 , for the insight! Older men can be more caring ,sensitive and a kinda 'let go' attitude towards our sometime unrealistic attitude as well, i guess! and maybe less ego issues as a younger woman by the side is anyway a ego booster!
like you all know, i have had many sexual A's in my life.Twice i've been the younger man with older woman.The reason was that these women had the drive and experience to satisfy my highly erotic fantasies.they were getting older and wanted to experience more encounters before they were too old to do the kinky stuff.The difference was huge.i was 20, she was 42.Then another one ,when i was around 35 and she was 50 something but hooot! Now that i am single and a bit older ha ha ha , i prefer about the same age me as old are getting older ! The younger women dont always go in for older guys.
Older men who are lucky to get hold of a younger woman,will do anything to keep them.Now, for instance,me and her ha ha ha. She is quite younger to me and apart from having the hots for her,i am a bit protective towards her,if that makes sense?I confided in one of my freinds w/o giving 'her' true identity, and he told me the 'side effects' of having her ha ha ha .Will i be bothered if IF she gave in to my wanting to know her.Whats that guys name again!!
The perspective changes entirely when the men get older.more than sex ( not me included here! my other buddies)they need emotional satisfaction,whatever that means.they want to stop wandering like animals and find inner peace ( again, whatever that means).but strangely enough, i feel peace when i am around her.Giving out vibes? i dont know.thats what i want to know.
My AP of 8 months is 4 years younger than I am and it hasn't bothered me at all.
A couple years ago, I dated a man that was 14 years older than me.