Olderman with younger woman !

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Registered: 11-20-2008
Olderman with younger woman !
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Thu, 11-20-2008 - 1:56pm
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Edited 11/22/2008 2:07 pm ET by sexybabygirl2008
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Thu, 11-20-2008 - 2:28pm

If your gut feeling is saying that something is not right,believe it.

No offence but older men who go in for younger women are usually using them.I am not talking about May-December R's.They get a huge ego boost and something to boast about if its known to friends especially.Some old men dont want to get old and enters a young woman who shows some interest and it becomes the story you have put here.

You have twice said that 'something is not right'.I would suggest go with it.But mind you, he wont let you off easily given his experience,old age, money and power-- not a good blend of a man to have an A with ! he can easily ruin you.I am just trying to make you aware of many things that are wrong here.

All i would say is.........Ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun.

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Thu, 11-20-2008 - 5:38pm

There's a saying that perhaps you've never heard that is this: "Don't dip your pen in the company ink". Translation....don't sleep with people in the workplace. ESPECIALLY your boss. Because, and I hate to tell you this, you can most likely kiss this job goodbye. And it sounds like it's a good one (other than the fact that your boss preys on his employees). I don't know if your AP is the owner of the company, but if he's not, and problems were to develop, you can bet the farm on you would be the one to be forced to leave.

I don't know what else to tell you other than to get out of this situation. It isn't good. I would be willing to bet that you're not the first young thing he's gotten involved with. And, of course, he puts his wife down. It's part of the game. You have doubts for a reason. Pay attention to them. I would get out of this situation if I were you. If it takes finding something else, then I'd do it. And never, never, NEVER sleep with a coworker, especially a boss, again. Nothing good comes of it.

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Fri, 11-21-2008 - 7:21am
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Edited 11/22/2008 2:07 pm ET by sexybabygirl2008
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Fri, 11-21-2008 - 5:53pm
I don't think what I said was silly at all. I'm sorry you took it as being some sort of judgement. Believe me, it wasn't intended for that. It's just a saying. Sorry if you're sensitive to it. However, it does ring true, you have to admit. Regardless, I am glad to see that you know that sleeping with the boss wasn't such a stellar idea, and that you're going to find another job. Good call. You'll be glad you did in the long run.
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Sat, 11-22-2008 - 6:16am

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Sat, 11-22-2008 - 9:31am
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Edited 11/22/2008 2:08 pm ET by sexybabygirl2008