OM in Massage Parlour?????

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Registered: 12-31-1969
OM in Massage Parlour?????
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Thu, 01-15-2004 - 4:34am
Dear All

I have hit another bump in this A of mine. This time it is very difficult to understand him and I need advice.

Okay so he was away for two days for his sons christening. As soon as he got back he phones me and is nice to start of with. He made the usual remarks about not meeting him for sex. I said the same stuff about needing to meet socially as well, like walks dinenr etc.

Anyway then he says the weirdest thing to me. He goes are you ready for a confession? I said yes. he says, are you sure? I go Yes. He said when he went on a buisness trip last week his friend took him to a Brothel. When I got upset he started to change his stpry and said oh it was just a massage parlour with lap dancing going in and started to promise me he didnt do anything.

Lap dancing in a massage parlour? I dont think so. But I know him he is super clean in fact sometimes I am sure he has phobia of germs coz he is always washing and stuff. One of me says he probably didnt go coz of his fear of germs and was just telling a super idiotic lie in a childish attempt. But the other half of me says he is crazy and I should dump him now.

Help. Please let me know of what you think and what I should do. I have got the email address of the guy he says he was with. Should I write to him and ask what happened. Should I insist on HIV test???

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 8:48am
HI Ust

I don not know your story but it sounds like he enjoys playing head games with you, not good.

If you are married you should be concerned about giveing you husband an STD even if you use condoms, time to reasses the situation.

Have your self tested for STDs even if he refuses it's your life.


FREE

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-27-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 10:22am
hi ustaani hon

I'd be very careful...doesn't sound too good. Are you sure you want to stay involved with this man? BIG red light there!! Think about it.

Charlotte