OM & Pre-Cana
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| Wed, 04-14-2004 - 4:43pm |
He went on to explain that he wondered when we would have the physical part of our relationship "out of our systems" and just be friends. Still confused, I asked him why he was asking this of me now.
He explained that he is going to a pre-cana retreat this weekend with his fiancee' in preparation for their wedding next year and that he thought the pre-cana experience might mean the end of the physical part of our relationship. I didn't know what to say. I am not Catholic, so I don't really know what is involved, although I have friends who have gone on these retreats.
I guess I'm kind of confused, and not sure what to do. On one hand, I respect his religion and everything, but there is a part of me (maybe a mean selfish part) that doesn't see what that has to do with us, and feels hurt that he said this.
Anyone have any words of advice/support? I won't talk to OM again until at least Sunday. He is out of town until Friday, then he leaves Friday night to go on the retreat.

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sujata
Well, I guess I just illustrated that the eye sees but the mind perceives. Somewhere in the back of my mind I remember reading that... selective memory, anyone?
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