OMG, y'all, I may have actually grown up
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| Mon, 05-17-2004 - 9:50pm |
Here's the thing....his g/f is having routine, but fairly painful surgery on Wednesday. Since he has to work, her son is taking her to and from the hospital and will stay with her until SO gets home. As I mentioned, I had asked him to come over on his breakfast break Wednesday, since I won't have the kids at that hour (like I do on Thursdays). Well, instantly I regretted asking. It seemed so selfish. So today I wrote him an email and told him not to come over Wednesday and not to worry about calling or coming over until Saturday. That he needed to focus on her right now and that I would see him this weekend like always.
Wasn't that mature of me?? The wierd thing??? I meant every word of it!! I think I may be growing up and learning to think about others instead of myself!!!!!!
Lucky

Hey Lucky,
and while you may feel down about it... don't ya just feel good about yourself!? :)
I was recently in the similar circumstances with MM... getting together lately has just been nightmare and we'd finally planned a little time at his place while his wife was out.
Sweet
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