OMG, y'all...I can't believe he did this

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Registered: 05-24-2003
OMG, y'all...I can't believe he did this
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Fri, 05-21-2004 - 8:04pm
Mr. I'm-always-in-control-of-my-emotions, Mr. I-always-want-to-be-careful-what-I-say-so-we-don't-get-hurt, Mr. I-NEVER-do-this left a message on my answering machine at home while I was at work telling me that he just wanted to call to tell me he loved me and missed me.

I kid you not, in the year that we've been together, he has NEVER left such a message. He's never emailed just to say that, either, come to think about it. We've seen each other a couple of times this week, but only for a minute and they were pretty impersonal moments. We're going to see each other at work overnight and I'm so psyched I can't stand it. Sounds like he can't wait to see me, either!!!



On the one hand this is really cool, yet on another, I hate feeling like a teenager who has no control over herself, who can't help but get all giddy about a guy leaving that sort of message for her!

Lucky

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Registered: 04-14-2004
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 8:18pm
Woohoo! Oh I'm thinking Mr. I-always-in-control just lost control and had to gush....sounds like a HUGE step for him. I'm so happy for you!

Tell me, how many times have you replayed that message to hear him say those words again? Girl, I would be playing it over and over as I did the happy dance through the house!

Are your cheeks hurting from smiling so much?? ;)

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 9:17pm
Heheh....so far, only twice, but my plan is to play it as I'm falling asleep, lol!!! And yes, I've been smiling a lot this past few hours!!!! And it *is* a huge step for him. He tells me he loves me often enough so that I never forget it or think it's gone away, but rarely enough to appreciate it when he does. But it's always in conversation on the phone or in email (and that is in closing. I can't remember an email where 'ily' was the message itself). It's only occasionally said by him in person and, like I said, he has never left it in a message.

Been doing the happy dance!!!!!

Lucky