OMG!Just found out he's coming to visit!

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Registered: 01-06-2004
OMG!Just found out he's coming to visit!
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Mon, 01-12-2004 - 12:58pm
I am finally, after all this time and all this buildup, f-i-n-a-l-l-y going to see my MM again and I am a total wreck! It turns out he's been called him up here for a series of meetings. He'll be here on Wednesday night and he wants to meet me for a late dinner. How should I dress? How should I act? I feel like I'm in high school instead of a successful career woman for Pete's sake!

I know this is stupid, but what if the chemistry isn't like I remembered it? What if it is? Do I just automatically assume we'll end up in bed? Or is that too forward?

I am such a mess! Any tips or coaching would be appreciated - he and I have been corrosponding for months via email and talking almost daily on the phone but I haven't seen him in person since August.

HELP!

Lisa

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Registered: 01-04-2004
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 1:13pm
whoaaaaaaaaa...pull the brake on the panic train!! details details..come on give em up! lets start with "what am i going to wear?" i dont know what situation you going to be in when you meet him, but wear his favorite color for sure :).
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 1:52pm
You could never go wrong with a black dress. How would you act - depends on what you want from him *wink*... I don't know about chemistry suddenly dying out if it wasn't there first place. Well to expect yourself in bed with him - its really upto you to make it whatever you want out of it. If its has been long - I wouldn't jump directly into bed. So, relax and take it slow.....
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 2:12pm
well, let's see, i would dress in my favorite outfit that makes me look AND feel good, meet MM wherever for dinner, have one cosmo to loose up a bit, catch up through dinner and then jump his bones in his hotel room afterward to catch up in the sack!! but that's just me....

if you've been talking to MM everyday, and you're excited he's coming to town, why not take full advantage of your opportunity and just go for it. on the other hand, if you're not attracted to him anymore, have the drink and tell MM you have an early meeting and thank him and say goodnight.

your choice, honey!

gurl