OM's mom is dying... less than one year
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| Tue, 10-21-2003 - 9:43am |
He was really open about not knowing how to deal with one life breaking down while trying to build another one up. I just told him that i want to be there for him. ( we live a 3 hr flight away and haven't seen eachother since we met on aug 29th.. ) and he said that was the nicest thing he could have heard. He can't talk to his W or brother, and that was good to hear.
I told him though that we should just be friends at least for now. Its too much to think of to be more, and i don't want him leaving home for any amount of time with his mom so sick. He thinks she will be gone in less than 6 months, and was getting choked up talking about this being her last xmas, and what to do after etc.. i just wanted to hold him, and didn't want to add to his problems. Told him that i want to be there if he lets me in.. he seemed relieved. said he still missd me, and i know i miss him, but think its best now to support eachother.. any thoughts..

I know it is hard not to hear from him and you wish you could physically be there to comfort him.
Hang in there.
saatty
Annika
Brightest Blessings, Annika