one emr after another

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Registered: 08-27-2005
one emr after another
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Sun, 01-03-2010 - 12:51am

i recently asked this question about why do some people get involved in one emr after another and they know the limitations. one possible reason could be that the person does not want a full time relationship. for some women, they can't be bothered with the responsibility of taking care of a man- the cooking, cleaning etc. and for the men,it could be that some men do not want a committed relationship with any woman. fulltime relationship is out for them.

there could be another reason. could be that the men/women they
meet and like just happen to be married/or attached. it is not like they attach themselves to someone because they are married. it could well mean that they meet someone who they like and the person just happens to be married. what do you think?

k2002
k2002
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Registered: 10-05-2009
Sun, 01-03-2010 - 5:18am
I think some people are addicted to the "first" time. That first kiss always makes my tummy flop, that first time we hold hands, that first time for every little bit of a relationship. I think some people are truly addicted to that feeling, that high of the new person and the first time feeling. For me, if I never meet another man, that is ok with me. I'm happy with who I'm with and if he goes away, I can't see there being another. I'm not a repeat offender. Once was 1000 times too many for me, for him, for all of us. I can't imagine living like that ever again, nor will I ever!
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Registered: 12-29-2008
Sun, 01-03-2010 - 3:50pm
Its the chase....I love the chase, the attention, The "firsts".