The one who loves less.....

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Registered: 05-06-2010
The one who loves less.....
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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 9:31pm

... controls the relationship.


Would this hold true in yours?


I know this is similar to a previous discussion of who has more power... so would that mean the one who loves less has more power?

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 12:27pm

I think you're right. That is the case it seems.

In my A, for some reason I think we're equal, which is very very unusual.

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 1:15pm

I also think that is a true statement. Read it many times as well in various locations.


Mine also feels equal...and lately that's SCARING me!!

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 3:41pm
Seems like it in many of the stories I read about.

anotherseyes

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Sat, 07-24-2010 - 4:26pm
I see us as pretty equal when it comes to "power". We both give and take on an even basis.
Neither of us want to or will leave our marriage. But where it comes to emotion, I love him, he cares for me. He said he could love me if the situation was right. He is a very closed and controlled man when it comes to emotions so it is my belief that he just won't allow himself to love me.
The sexual chemistry between us is phenomenal!
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Registered: 06-08-2010
Mon, 07-26-2010 - 1:14am

In my A it is true.