Opinions
Find a Conversation
Opinions
| Thu, 01-08-2009 - 3:27pm |
Okay, there seems to be some criticism and negativity about affairs here...imagine that, on an AFFAIR SUPPORT BOARD, but whatever. What I would like to know is, which do you think is the lesser of two evils...two married people having an affair with no intention of leaving their spouses...just out for a good time playing around for as long as they can without getting caught, OR, two married people who are really in love with each other and would like to leave their spouses because they tired of the sneaking around and lying but are trying to figure out the right time and way to end their marriages? What is the difference between the two affairs? :)

Pages
>>>"Okay, there seems to be some criticism and negativity about affairs here...imagine that, on an AFFAIR SUPPORT BOARD"<<<
Funny you keep harping about this same issue but what you seem not to get is that SUPPORT comes in all shapes and sizes. You take what helps you and leave what don't.
>>>"What I would like to know is, which do you think is the lesser of two evils...two married people having an affair with no intention of leaving their spouses...just out for a good time playing around for as long as they can without getting caught, OR, two married people who are really in love"<<<
They're both the same. There's no such a thing as "lesser evil" when it comes to A-land. They both can hurt and devastate all including innocent bystander. People engaged in an A for different reasons. But I don't think you can thump your nose on those who's in it for "cake eating" reason because you think yours is more honorable. The right thing for us all in an A to do is to tie up loose ends in our M or R before getting into an illicit affair with someone else.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
Very good post, goddess.
I'm a lurker here and enjoy reading your posts.
I'm a newbie. My personal opinion is that
Hi Gabby
It doesn't make sense to me that you would make a
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
Thank you! Come out of lurkdom and share your story with us. Diversity is the spice of life..... And you're already on my good friend list.
;)
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
I don't really have much of an opinion on this either way, but I do have a pet peave
about affairs being called "illicit". The proper definition of "illicit" is "illegal".
Pages