Opinions PLEASE

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Registered: 10-16-2003
Opinions PLEASE
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Thu, 10-30-2003 - 7:57am
My MM and I discovered yesterday that we love each other. We were at a park with our children..."accidently" bumped into each other there....wanted our children to meet & play. We both still love our spouses but r not in love with them anymore....people grow ...people change...u can love someone just because u r accustomed to them. Now we have found each other. Want to be together but do not know what to do. I am quite sur this will devistate my hubby...but I have been warning him for 2 years that if things don't change, he will lose me. Is this a test of my marriage? I am afraid to hurt hubby...but do I continue on being unhappy?...or do I go for my brass ring?
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Registered: 09-30-2003
In reply to: harley43
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 8:29am
My question to you harley is if you and MM have already discussed leaving your spouses? Did MM already tell you that he will leave his W? If so then if you think that you can be happy with this person and move on with no regrets go for it. Think long and hard about the consequences and the aftermath. It is very easy to get caught up in the moment especially when you are in love but there are going to be consequences. I am not telling you not to do it, I am only telling you to proceed with caution and make sure that you are making the right decision. ;)
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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: harley43
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 9:51am
From personal experience I dont think you should ever leave a man for another man. You should be willing to leave your relationship for yourself and to stand on your own two feet. Proceed with caution as Sally suggested but proceed in a direction that works best for YOU, not you and your OM...

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