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the other woman
| Tue, 09-23-2003 - 11:07pm |
how many of you are the other woman?
is your OM with someone, married and you are the other woman?
is your OM with someone, married and you are the other woman?

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my next question, Are any of you afraid of the consequences if the W find out?
If she were to find out, I would not be scared in the least. She lives too far away to pull some crazed wife trick. She has no clue who my H is, so I would not be worried about her contacting him at all. I would be worried about MM. I can picture his W hitting him up for major child support, as she is very materalistic. I see her not letting MM see their son much too.
W and I went to court because I got a TRO on her for harassing me at work...he's my boss....mighty fine. He asked me before we went to drop because she thinks we planned it to take the kids from her....his youngest birthday is 2 days from my son, who is older. my son is older than his oldest by 3 months.
I gave him a key to my place and she managed to get the key. she's been trying to find out where I live, but I just had the locks changed so that I am safe. She doesn't have my address. She's been trying to quit thinking about me and I am sure she wonders if there is anything going on. She is the one that keeps asking him questions and he keeps telling her to drop it. He keeps asking himself why he goes back and puts the kids through that and himself. Things are looking up....I am so glad. it took him three months because of the games she's been playing...threats stupid stuff. she's older than me...a five years I guess....but she used to call me and cry, because she knew that he confided in me....she's known that he didn't want to be with her for 5 months....he's been telling her everyday....now they are going to sell the house and she is going to move closer to where he works....we are getting ready to buy a home together....we plan take our relationship, uh, slow...by not moving in together until our home closes next year. We want to spend the rest of our lives together. It's such a great feeling!!!
I thought that I was the only one.....I've had no one to talk to and my best girlfriend I am sure she is tired of hearing about it. Deep down, he didn't leave her for me, he left for him and his happiness. I am just a bonus. :-)
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through all this, i mean, she tried to get my address and wanted so bad to know where i live. She called me, crying telling me that she screwed things up with him..that kind of stuff. I think she's crazy. I can't blame her, but a lot of the stuff that she did was so childish.. I got the preverbial name, "home wrecker" it's so gay. she was rude to me the whole time. called me names, and i never said anything remotely as bad as she did. he always defended me when she was talking crazy. it would disappoint her that he would take my side.
So, I got tired of the stupid phone calls, the harrassing at work. I got a TRO, it was the best 2 weeks. I mean I was sleeping better too. he was still getting the brow beating at home. he only went for the kids, they're good kids. I feel so bad for them.
He called me yesterday, told her that he wasn't coming home when he gets back. Said he would be at the counseling sessions and that was it. said he would take the boys and visit them on the weekends. she told him that his priorities were messed up.
anyhow, I am done babbling. I am afraid that she will end up on my doorstep one day...when he's here and everything that I have that says we are together is here. trying the key that doesn't work, had to get my locks changed recently.
Crazy.....
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